Mistakes in Bed

Many men are a real disaster in bed. And, honestly, this is quite disappointing for all those beautiful women you worked hard to pick up, date and seduce. Once you get to the climax make sure you make the most of it.

Here are the top mistakes you must avoid:

1- You Only Touch Her When You Want Sex

Why would someone be that stupid? It’s incredible, but many men are. Some practically never touch their woman. You really don’t want to be one of them.

A real man will touch her around, kiss her, hold her hands, caress her and more. After all, having a wife or girlfriend is a choice, not an obligation! If you don’t cuddle, kiss or touch you’ll make her feel very uncomfortable.

Women are affectionate and emotional and want to be touched. It makes them feel more wanted. If you don’t do it you’ll only be feeling her insecurities, making matters worse. She can become angry, lose lust for sex and even get resented.

2- Not Enough Sex

Many men just don’t do it enough. And, guys, women want to have sex. It’s not only a pleasure for us men: it’s a great enjoyment for them too. Do it or it will cause you many problems: more talking or even break up, just to name a few.

By having too little sex you’ll make her feel insecure. She’ll think hard why you don’t: another woman? Is she not hot? Do you have sexual problems? It’s all for the worst. Make your couple feel great and deliver amazing sex.

If there’s something that bugs you, talk. Better to speak and make things clear than suffer the horrible consequences later. If she’s, for example, dirty down there tell her to shower. Really, do it!

Note: sometimes, on the other hand, you’ll be trying too much. There are moments in time when girls just don’t want to sleep with you. Maybe it’s too early in the day, she’s too stressed or you try to do it way too often. Calibrate. All women are different… Find what’s right for yours.

3- Sex Is Too Short

Once you got her horny, deliver. Having a very short intercourse is the ultimate turn off. So make sure the whole ritual lasts long enough. Start with foreplay, caresses and touching. Don’t go right in, take your time. Stimulate every part of her body and get her in the perfect mood for when you are inside her.

Then, once inside, try your best to last. How long is up to you and the girl: but make sure you make her have orgasms and great pleasure. It’s not good if you stop shy of that. It’s not all about premature ejaculation, just mix everything. Kiss her, caress her, foreplay and more.

4- Sex Is Boring And Predictable

Sex is quite straightforward, so have a bit of imagination! Don’t do the same every time. Instead, try different places, different positions and make it shorter or longer. Don’t settle for mediocrity. No matter how long you last or how big yours is, if you do always the same you will both get bored of it.

A good lover will mix in a bit of magic. Do it at a public place once a while, do a romantic bath together, spend hours stimulating every bit of her body…. That’s what the master lovers do and what you should. It will make her happy, keep the attraction high and will make you feel more od a man.

5- Oral Sex Etiquette

We all love oral sex. Just don’t go too far for it: don’t push her head hard down. Many men do it and don’t realize that it’s counterproductive. Give and receive. If you give her an outstanding oral stimulation you’ll well receive yours. It’s that simple.

Once she’s giving you oral, stay calm. Don’t thrust while she’s doing it, don’t move her around and by no means come in her mouth (unless it’s ok with her, that is.) Behave like a gentleman. Do all this and she’ll be willing to do it more often, longer and better every time. It’s both of you who win.

And last, some girls are really uncomfortable doing it. Speak to them, ask them what’s wrong and how you can make them feel better. But stick to diplomacy, don’t just push them back down!