There are plenty of paths you can take if you want to lose your girlfriend. Women are lovely, yet they are these complicated beings that implicitly demand us in many ways. We have to keep up, work hard and show all our love if we want to keep them happy.
If you are with a beautiful woman, the probabilities you’ll have a long queue of men waiting to steal her from you are huge. They are like sharks, building the terrain for your fall – and women know this. You got to be specially careful; If you fall into terrible mistakes as the ones I present below, you could start thinking of waving her goodbye. Its five things you must avoid at any cost.
Losing her respect
The moment your woman stops respecting you, it’s all over. There is no going back and the relationship will fail whenever she wants. So your goal is to keep this respect at all costs, even if it means a lot of pain to you. A woman should always have the feeling that if she does things that you don’t like, despite you love her, you are willing to let go.
For example, if you promised and made her sure that you would finish with her if she ever cheated, keep your word, even if hurts you a lot. If you didn’t, she would know you forgive even what hurts you the most – and that will make her feel she can do with you whatever she desires. Once a woman makes you do what she wants, you fall into a deep point of no return and a spiral of unhappiness. You just don’t want that. So make your values, that don’t have to be many, honest with yourself and clear to her. And she must know that if she breaks them, she will inevitably lose you.
Making her be in control of the situation
What do you want to do now? Which restaurant do you like? Where do you want to sit? Do you want to leave now? You want to change bars? – Just avoid doing this kind of questions. You are the man, and thus you are the one that must have the plan and the ideas clear. Obviously, you can be romantic and ask her once a while. But at the moment this becomes the norm, you are doomed. Be romantic and gentle, but don’t make her be in control. At least, not often – If not, you will lose her respect. The consequences, we know from above, are not encouraging.
Lying to her
Don’t ask why, but if there is something certain is that they will always know the truth: it’s worthless to lie to a woman. If you keep lying to her, you will surely lose. A wiser idea is to sell yourself as a honest and trustworthy man, something important that all women will appreciate. It’s not easy build such respect and it’s very easy to lose it. So be careful – if you do something really bad, it’s better to go and say it rather than be continuously suffering and chased by the feeling that she will find it out.
Being too possessive
If you are not paying her enough attention or never show jealousy, she will get pissed. If you do pay her a lot of attention and show this jealousy, she could also get pissed. The amount of attention you should put into a woman is tricky – you got to have always the correct balance. Being too possessive, though, it’s a ticket to your doom. It’s not that the woman would not like it; it’s just that you would be explicitly showing weakness. Even if it hurts you and you can’t help it, still avoid it.
Don’t satisfy her
Sex is very, very important for any relationship. Thus, all men should work hard to make their partners feel satisfied. Asking her what she likes and her fantasies is just the tip of what you must do – always strive to make her comfortable and happy in bed. If you have some kind of problem, ask and consult a doctor, they are there to help you. If do not, you could be into serious trouble, even if she really loves you.
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dude a) this is not a good topic for this site
b) i think you could write this post better.
these 5 are not top 5 things you must avoid, there are more important ones in the list. go to yahoo answers and do some common sense search. also when you are a pua, you know that you can attract any gal and make her fall in love with you so it means that you can steal someone elses gf. so if you can do so, why doesnt it happen to ya?? admit it and move on.
Dave, I can tell you are a lonely man. Even if you have a girlfriend, she doesn’t like you. I believe all the points are valid.
Interesting ideas and on the surface those and others are true. Underneath it all, women really want to be loved & taken care of (unless they’ve had “bad” experiences in the past) by a real loving masculine man, who can deal empoweringly with them in any situation.
Sometimes then even means leaving them, but it important to know as a man how you show up (consistently) that attracts or repels women – so what you do that actually works or not! You also need to know what women really want… not what “society” has us as men believe.
At the end of the day if you’re attracted a real loving woman with very little “baggage” and you meet her needs consistently (at your choosing – because you know what her needs are), then she’ll never what to leave you!
In a way, this is all my personal view after the experiences I have lived. Perhaps someone like Dave has had a different life going, was with different kind of women and he can for sure not agree with what I say.
But either way, I’m very sure and confident in what I wrote. I’m glad Darcie and Rob also agree! Thanks for your comments, they really add value to all this :)
Mario,
You have mentioned very good and important points here. I certainly agree with them. But there’s one sentence I object: “A wiser idea is to sell yourself as a honest and trustworthy man,” instead I propose: “A wise idea is to BE a honest and trustworthy man,”
Best Wishes,
Burak
Can I just interject a female opinion on the matter? The whole idea of finding ways to “lose a girlfriend” are just silly, immature, and fankly ineffective.They always post this same kind of silly stuff in those fashion magazines we girls love so much but with maybe twice the rediculousness. Instead of trying mind games, how about just telling her the truth? If you deliberatly try losing her respect you will get exactly what you paid for, a lack of respect. This is accompanied by dramatics, retaliation, revenge, and sometimes worse. If you handle the fact that you are no longer interested in the gal with a little dignity and respect, she may still be crushed (assuming you are a catch yourself) but at least she will respect you. And when you wake up in the morning, maybe you’ll respect yorself.
Well i’m a lady..
i agree with points 3, 4 and 5.
Lying – Just don’t, you’re right, most women just know.even if they ignore or deny it, we knoooow..
Possessiveness – with normal women – this is correct, however as you probably know, a lot of women are sort of messed up, and they might love to be controled and protected like naughty puppy..i don’t understand it.
Sex – yes. Do not ever say anything like “ima rock your world baby” EVER. be quietly confident.
I beleive some of these things are true. Yes, i do ask my girlfriend what she wants, but only because i try to make what happens to something she would like, but i try not to make a habbit of it. she also loves is when im clingy though. Like, once, i was told off for being too clingy, then told off for not, then when she tried to make me feel jealous i kept my mouth shut and she went beserk.
Really, mostly, it comes down to the mail brain and the female brain.
How we would take it compared to them. Some times, its just a matter of faith.
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Girlfriend lose Man and Women both take responsible,i mean tests has to ended joint and except .why do lose. to be change have new Another one is more special.thank you
To Amber, the point of this article is not to WANT to MAKE people lose their girlfriends. This is just an informative article, as all of his are, about what guys should not do, if they wish to keep a relationship. I agree, the title is misleading, but this article is an informative, “What not to do”, article.
Cheers,
problem here is the title. maybe top 5 things ways to ruin a relationship? something that doesn’t imply the guy is doing it deliberately.
deliberately lying to to finish a relationship is a terrible strategy but knowing that you shouldn’t lie to keep a relationship alive is a good thing (quite obvious though…)
Hey Mario, good run down of the basics! Of course you are right, these things are certain to lose you your girlfriend in the long term..at least if that girlfriend has some pride and self respect.
I am loving Amber’s comment ;-) made me laugh!
It’s funny isn’t it…sometimes we are so busy running things down that we don’t UNDERSTAND…and it’s purely because WE DON’T UNDERSTAND them…
James to the rescue!
Priceless…
Anyway.. thanks
Stephan
Thanks to all of you!! I know it’s a tricky topic and people as Amber might not agree with what I say – But that’s to be expected. It’s just my view on the subject and for this we have the comments – For all of you to leave your opinions, your advices and thoughts. One man alone cannot construct the encyclopedia this site will slowly become =)
Being too possessive is number 1 on my list. Definitely shows lower value behavior to make her want to leave you.