Comments on: 3 Biggest Mistakes Man Make Speaking With Women

By: Mario

Mario — Mon, 23 Jan 2012 17:20:38 +0000

It’s true, John, that people have to act like themselves – natural. But what if they don’t know where to go, if they need some extra guidance?

It’s very hard to be single and desperate to get a girl – I was there myself and I know it doesn’t feel good. If I can give a bit of help to other people, I will – and, of course, it’s up to them to decide whether to follow it or not. Nobody is obliged to read this site nor what I say it’s the world’s only way – it’s my opinion and things I’ve done that have worked in the past. Maybe they won’t help you but they’ll still help other people =)

By: John R

John R — Sat, 21 Jan 2012 02:37:04 +0000

My only question is, what makes these ppl who write these articles experts on women? For them to give other guys advice, and tell them what to say, and how to say it comes off as them thinking they know everything, every person is different, and they have to be themself, and act natural. Giving all these steps is confusing, you should just sum it all up, but the best thing is just to let everyone do it the way they feel comfortable.

By: DaveIsAwesome

DaveIsAwesome — Sat, 06 Feb 2010 14:41:58 +0000

Moral of the story: become the person people want to talk to, and people will want to talk to you.

This is a great article and although you’d think most of the points made here would come naturally to most people, they don’t to everyone.

By: Kevin

Kevin — Tue, 26 Jan 2010 06:55:14 +0000

Why would you want to be so serious upon meeting a girl in the first place? Keep it light and easy, have a great time, and all those serious discussions will naturally come up. I agree, it’s better to stay out of controversial subjects, and me personally, serious conversations right of the bat.

By: Mario

Mario — Sat, 27 Jun 2009 04:03:37 +0000

I think that both of you, James and Alex, misunderstood what I meant. By no means I want anyone who reads my site to hide their true selves. No way! You are what you are and that’s what makes you someone special. I don’t think anyone should change what they are and what they mean – But they can present themselves in a much better way. One way is to become a good speaker, as I wrote in the past article. That’s not being fake or being different, it’s improving and learning a skill.

These “rules” I wrote down here are what I believe will help you find a connection with someone in a faster way. They are valid for the first impression, not for the long journey that is a relationship. I love to talk about politics, history and religion and I do it with women, friends and everyone I meet. I wouldn’t go on a second date either with a girl who I feel I can’t talk about what I like.

But those things are just not, I believe, the best thing to talk about with someone I’m just meeting. If the other person would like to talk about it, I’m absolutely willing to.. But I think that we could enjoy more with conversations about their dreams, their adventures, their hopes and all those nice feelings.