Comments on: Love vs. Insecurity http://www.beautifulwomendating.com/love-vs-insecurity/ Attract, Seduce And Date Beautiful Women Tue, 09 Mar 2010 22:34:59 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.9.2 hourly 1 By: Surviving a Long Distance Relationship http://www.beautifulwomendating.com/love-vs-insecurity/comment-page-1/#comment-4108 Surviving a Long Distance Relationship Mon, 09 Nov 2009 14:31:42 +0000 http://www.beautifulwomendating.com/?p=1594#comment-4108 [...] there are chances of surviving long distance, relationships of love are the ones which have the highest odds. Relationships of insecurity will, in an overwhelming [...] [...] there are chances of surviving long distance, relationships of love are the ones which have the highest odds. Relationships of insecurity will, in an overwhelming [...]

]]> By: Mario http://www.beautifulwomendating.com/love-vs-insecurity/comment-page-1/#comment-4058 Mario Sat, 07 Nov 2009 19:22:50 +0000 http://www.beautifulwomendating.com/?p=1594#comment-4058 Thanks for your comment Reg! That extra bit of information you give is good to know. It's just as you say... People have to look for the interdependent type of relationships. The other two are, because of one way or the other, just not good. Thanks for your comment Reg! That extra bit of information you give is good to know. It’s just as you say… People have to look for the interdependent type of relationships. The other two are, because of one way or the other, just not good.

]]> By: Reg http://www.beautifulwomendating.com/love-vs-insecurity/comment-page-1/#comment-4050 Reg Sat, 07 Nov 2009 12:22:11 +0000 http://www.beautifulwomendating.com/?p=1594#comment-4050 This is probably the deepest post you've written. You've communicated quite a complex psychological truth in a very easy-to-understand way. Well done. The way I was taught this is that you can be too independent, or you can be co-dependent, or you can be interdependent. Interdependent is best because it says I won't die without you but I really really want you in my life. Co-dependent is what you are talking about when people build their relationship from insecurity, and independent is obvious and frankly that's the kind of relationship I want to stay furtherest away from. Who wants to be with someone who completely doesn't need them. I'm sure everyone reading knows someone who is fiercely independent. They're a nightmare. This is probably the deepest post you’ve written. You’ve communicated quite a complex psychological truth in a very easy-to-understand way. Well done.

The way I was taught this is that you can be too independent, or you can be co-dependent, or you can be interdependent. Interdependent is best because it says I won’t die without you but I really really want you in my life. Co-dependent is what you are talking about when people build their relationship from insecurity, and independent is obvious and frankly that’s the kind of relationship I want to stay furtherest away from. Who wants to be with someone who completely doesn’t need them. I’m sure everyone reading knows someone who is fiercely independent. They’re a nightmare.

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