In many of the previous articles I have extensively used and talked about the concept of value. I want to thoroughly explain what value means, why we want to raise it and why is it so important when we deal with women.
Value itself is really a fantastic concept. Just picture it as a plain number or rating you have. In the same way we men rate women with a “3”, “7” or a “10”, always strictly out of her looks, these women will rate us in return. Nevertheless, at the moment of rating a man, the situation is not as physical-oriented as with woman (lucky us!) You might look like a “3”, but if you have a series of great attributes you can easily raise this rating to a much higher level.
Women are much more prone to be with a guy they believe have a higher value than themselves. So have that clear and start working on the way to raise that rating of yours to a new level. The results, then, will come alone. Seducing women is easier than you can imagine when you constantly show you have a high value. They will feel naturally attracted to you and having women in your life will become something normal for you. Believe me that!
The whole concept of this site is around making you raise your value and thus becoming more attractive to women. Fifty ways of scoring higher can be checked in two old articles here and here. Each point in those lists will make you more attractive in the eyes of women.
Yet, it’s beyond the dreams of even the most ambitious men to complete the whole list. So, where should you focus? For starters, in order to get your value higher, you have to focus on the following three points. They are no doubt the biggest value risers and the ones that will attract more women.
Social Proof
Definitely the most remarkable quality and the point all men should strive to improve. Women will feel naturally attracted to those men who are social leaders, those who command the tribe. Be charismatic, loved by everyone and constantly on demand – then, others will raise your value for you.
I know it’s hard, that everyone wants to be a social leader and really few are. But, the truth is that you can all become one. I’ll explain thoroughly how to in the following articles, but for the meantime, your task is to observe. Look at how the leaders in your social circle act. Analyze what they do and why they do it, check how people around them react. Learn from their acts and imitate those which, you believe, are great things that make them special.
Do Something Outstanding
Be really great at doing something cool. That will make you special and more attractive to women. Why, then, all the best football or other sports players get all the beautiful girls? Focus on being remarkable at least on one thing. You can be a great cook, a fascinating magician! Think about those things you love and the way to turn them attractive to women. It can’t be that hard and we can all find one thing. You just need to put your heart, your time and great dedication into it.
It doesn’t even have to be a concrete ability! For example, I have traveled a lot and that’s my greatest charm, what makes me special around the people I hang out with. I have countless of crazy anecdotes, amazing photos and a deep and extensive knowledge of culture and history. Being smart and cultured, when coupled with social proof, high charisma and a bit of craziness is, I have realized, a top aphrodisiac.
Maximize your Potential
Most men who read this can surely look better, speak better or move better. There are hundreds of points where you can surely improve the way you present yourself to women. Focus on taking yourself to the very limits of what you can become. Dress well, take oratory or speaking lessons, learn theater! Which are, for you, the most handsome actors? Why? Analyze the way they dress, their speech and the way they move. Don’t lose any possibility! I bet that if you are “4” right now, you can easily become a “6” or “7” with a bit of dedication. And that’s just for your appearance!
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Yeah I think what you wrote here is correct or at least feels partially true.
The sad truth is that women in this world are sex objects, and men are power objects. I have never completely understood why this is the case (because for the most part men are interested in women eventually besides having someone in their lives as a mate and therefore sexual relations) so biologically sometimes I think nature should have created males more physically attractive as it did with females. And I don’t mean changing them much biologically except mostly in male skin. I always feel that even as males any age and especially when get older their skin turns a-lot more rough than females. More importantly, males a at even young ages look rougher than females biologically this should be the case.
But I am digressing, yes I agree with a-lot of what you said here. Power objects as I stated is the same or similar to the leader of the pack type of guys you stated here.
I just asked out a girl today. I was eating pizza, and yes I was debating it, as I saw this beautiful young woman, and patting my back for going for it I did.
Well I got rejected. However I thought why is she hesitant, however she smiled when I said of course before I might take her out I would shave. Long story short she said no, and she said” I’m really not interested, also I’m married?”
Two things came into my head, she was partially considering me when she smiled because why didn’t she tell me upfront right at the start she was married.
Second thing was, Unfortunately I think she was judging me based on my clothes. I wasn’t really sloppy per se, I had actually just got out of swimming practice. However I wasn’t in a suit or dressed up I suppose. Also I’m not sure if she was judging me based on wearing sneakers instead of shoes or good shoes?
However I am still glad I went up to her as I can use her experience to shape other future encounters, and also because I know it is not easy for all men to approach women.
I would like your opinion of this experience I had.
I also think your article didn’t go far enough into depth. If physical appearance doesn’t matter as much for men when a woman is evaluating a man, then as you are saying it seems to be for men when trying to pick up a girlfriend, one-night stand or whatever (casual sex).
Then how does age come into play? In other words was this article meant for 20 something men and women, 30 something men or women or older?
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