There’s one thing that will make you stand out from all the other guys in the world and that is the ability to inspire. Inspire your woman for a greater purpose. Change her from the inside, change the way she sees the world. Help her stand out and help her live a more happy life. Do it successfully and you’ll never be forgotten, for that I’m sure.
Don’t ever doubt if you can do this because yes, for sure you CAN! Help her find what she wants in life and make her understand and believe how important is to do it. Inspire her, change her, make her better. If you do it, you’ll naturally gain a special place in her life. Everyone is looking for something more. Find that something and help her achieve it, show her it’s possible. Teach her that the most important thing in life is to be happy. Help her find the way to be so. If she is already, help her be even more.
Leave something inside every girl that is special for you and you’ll never be one more guy in her life – you’ll be the man who changed her. Be a before and after in her life. Years will go by and perhaps many men will go through her life, but you will never be one more. Make her discover what she wants in life, in a man, or any aspect of her existence. Do it. Do it from your heart, believe what you say and what you tell them. Don’t bluff, be a great man. Down to earth, human but ambitious – make it clear that dreams should be high.
Definitely it’s not easy to be an inspirational figure, but it’s worth it to go all the way to become one. You have to speak about your and her dreams, what’s all you want in life. And you have to remind her and yourself that the key for happiness and success is to make all these dreams come true. Show her the way and do the impossible yourself, defeat all the pessimists and leave your girl shocked.
For example, at a dinner in Vienna I swore in front of all my friends I would learn how to speak German in just two months. Those who didn’t know me laughed and those you did know me looked at me strangely. Two months later, speaking fluently and working with the language, I left everyone speechless. Break your heart working for your dreams, push your limits to the highest you can imagine.
Set the example with yourself. If your objective is to get a beautiful woman for girlfriend, work like crazy for it. Turn the world around and don’t be afraid! Do it, work for your dreams. If this is what you dream, it will deserve all the attention and commitment in the world, all your effort. Find your purpose and don’t lie down.
Never give up, pursue your dreams until the last moment of your life, until your very last breath. Never, never settle for less! Be crazy about your dreams and teach her how to be too. I can guarantee it’s going to work. And always know I’ll be here to help you.
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That is so sweet and so true. Guys should make note about these kind of stuff. My fiance always tells me that he loves me and he cant stand being away from me. I think all guys should be like him and not treat girls like bad stuff.
Its about leaving behind self-centredness and loving,relating and communicating to them as real people and not just sex objects, its about holding her in captivation and inspiring her to move forward in life and when and if you leave … leave them better off than before you started dating them in the first place .. that’s my 2cents worth
lol… that was good, dont call it 2cents i rekon its more like a whole dollar!
Dear Fiend
1-my girl friend forget; she is not respect to the boyfriend.and service all so less.i mean car less. new friend good and car full then Chang mind. very good change day by day loos relationship real girl friend.
2-my girlfriend careful but nice and well OK.she will also miss because she is long time was not near and no phone call also .she was very tar, my be don’t no anything. girl or man has to take advantage. both side my be forget .thanks
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learn to speak fluently german in two months????
hahaha!
do you also still believe in santa?
dude…. c’mon stop all these exagerations
You shouldn’t be that pessimistic Gigi =P I was really fluent in German after only two months… It was not easy but I was totally dedicated.. Studied and spoke German at any moment and anywhere… It kind of worked in the end. And as that, everyone when fully dedicated, training hard and giving their best can achieve their dreams. It’s all a matter of belief and being confident in yourself!
I’m sorry if you don’t believe you can achieve these great feats… It would be great if you did. Many men and women do it and that’s why we see people running marathons, politicians, great archaeological discoveries.. Believing you can do it and working hard for it is the only way to go with all these kind of things.
hey man!tel tha gal of yours tha u love em,make her mind free frm all worries en she’ll all be yours
Wow, googled “How to make a girl never forget you” and found your page, well being from Vienna I’m impressed that you learnt how to speak German so fast, I am deeply impressed. I met a girl 6 weeks ago and we’ve been hanging out pretty often, and it was all working out quite well, but since she was only in Vienna for a couple of months she doesn’t know how she feels about us…and she will be leaving for Greece in a couple of days. I repeatedly told her that I want to learn how to speek greek, which would be practical aswell since I spent my holidays in Greece, I don’t know where this is going but I’m deeply in love with that girl, I don’t want to lose her..any advice on that?
Liebe Gruesse aus Wien
Alex
Mein Deutsch ist nicht Perfekt aber… Noch gut fur nur 2 Monaten!
If you are in love with this girl, don’t let go! Did something happen between you guys? If not, fire a shot before it’s too late! I mean, try something before she go back to Greece. Greeks are cool girls, LOVE them too!
Even if she has only a few days left before heading back home you can still make these days the most special for her. And Vienna is the perfect city for that.. It’s just magical =)
If it’s hard to find girlfriend or to make her love me more,I’d better be single!
lol
Thai poet said ” We can live without sex but we can’t live without food”
That means food is more important than sex.
I must agree with the Thai poet. Sex is cool, but if you don’t eat you die. I think that makes matters worse.
But, either way, I’ll answer you with another saying: “There’s no gain without pain.” I don’t like the word “pain”, so we can use “effort” instead. Without effort, you won’t go too far! If you want to be with the most beautiful women you NEED to put yourself into action =)
Hey, here I am once again – the guy from Vienna, well she left a couple of days aftter my post – lots of things happened between us, in the first 3 weeks we didn’t talk much, since she wasn’t sure about herself and her feelings. I sent her something for Valentine’s day per mail and did the same thing this easter. I keep telling her that I am in love with her- but you know figured Greek people don’t say that this fast- they always wanna keep a door opened – we are chatting and skyping every 2-3 days. Sometimes she teases me – i feel hot and cold sometimes, do you get what I am saying?!
Her father has asked her whether she is in love with an Austrian guy – so she must behave strangely at home I guess…
She will be coming to Vienna in about a month- not for me – but for the city-she says. I have no clue where this is going- something inside me tells me that I should keep going !
regards
Alex
That’s nice news Alex! Don’t take the teases too seriously, it’s something normal. Perhaps Austrians don’t do it that much, but it’s very common in Greece and in the Mediterranean! Same with “not for you”, just don’t worry about it.
Why would a girl skype and chat with a guy every couple of days if she’s not interested? It means something, right?
I think you should keep going, especially as she’s coming this soon. Just make sure you are not a completely sold out yet. I mean, tease her a bit too, enjoy the moment and have fun! I hope it all works out!
Hey,
thx for your fast response. Sometimes it’s hard to keep believing in this, since she’s not here, and I don’t know where all this is going. All I have is some feeling that makes me go on- last time we chatted she wrote that she is not in love with me- I am for that matter sure about my feelings – but when I asked whether it could be possible that she is not sure about her feelings- she responded “we will talk and look each other in the eyes” – doesn’t sound like NOT being in love to me…
I hope someday will come when I wake up and understand women ;)
Alex
jaja just one more thing Alex: never try to understand women. I’m sure the moment I started having real success with women was when I realized how pointless was it to understand what they think =) The truth is that most times they don’t even get it themselves! Just enjoy the moment and do what your heart tells you!
Hi Mario!
she wears a light smile when she sees me but when she meets me along the way she by-passes you by like a stranger. what could the problem be with her?
Hey James! Can you tell me a bit more about this?
Many people just act differently in public and in a more private-like situations. Maybe it’s just she – I had girlfriends that didn’t even want to kiss in public!
But a smile it’s always a good signal =)
this is good but…my problem i do forget a lot and i want to keep these memories…how do i do that? anyone know? i dont like forgetting…he thinks i dont care is why i forget but i do care i love him so much but i forget our times together and our bad times together i want to make it up to him but i cant we are long distance sort of i feel horrible that i forget…is there a way to not forget the pain and happiness? sorry if this is the wrong place to post..
Hey mario
I really like this article. I already have thought and done many things in this article so
Its good to know im on the right track. But, the girl im currently talking to isnt sure if she wants anything serious. But at the same time she says she kind of misses being in a long
Relationship because its been a long time. She already thinks that im a really great guy. But i want to make Her want a long term relationship. How can i withbout a doubt make it happen?
Joey, my best advice is to take it easy. Don’t focus on the long-term just yet – make her want something NOW, and be such a great and fantastic guy that she’ll naturally want to start something serious with you. Few girls, if any, want to start a long-term relationship with the guy from the beginning – only the very desperate! Start slow, then if you are nice I’m sure it will work out =)
A quick guess, but tie the memories to something material maybe. Photos? A small present? I’m also not a super memory guy, but if you ”print” the memories in some material good they’ll last longer! That’s my 2 cents =)
I’m impressed. I’m not easily impressed. I was orriginally looking for the most sPecial thing a guy could dofor his girlfriend and stumbled onto this. I can honestly say I’ve already succeeded and will continue to succeed in what is written here. I guess what most impresses me here is that there is someone else who shares nearly the same belief I do on the matter. I just want to add that chivalry is not dead. Be as much a gentleman as an inspiration. Go out of your way to hold the door open, fetch her coffee, and for goodness sake give up your seat for her. When you are at her house (or if you live with her) no matter what your job is or how tired you are do something impressive – wash the dishes, clean her room, do her chores, etc. And after you’re married if you are lucky enough to do so always do some sort of house chore. Always go theextra mile where possible. All doors open before she reaches then lest she prefer otherwise.
Hey Alex! And the rest, I’m from South Africa. I’m dating the most beautiful colored girl-it is legal to say that here. Anyway, she’s the girl who all the guys stares at, and I’m walking with her why? Cause I’m genuine a make promises that I keep I tell her how much I love her, and make her express her feelings too. Be mr.perfect do what other guys don’t.
I tell her everything when a girl was flirting with me and asked my contact, she now trust me like nothing else. She also said she would cut her polls if I hurt her, take note she was a player, now she said she changed 99% the other 1% percent will go away if she sees I am who I say I am. I respect her, but she will never try to walk over me cause I spoke about all these things early in the relationship, the terms and conditions. It’s true make her achieve her dreams by supporting her she will love it. Remember that was the player, the one all the guys fell over their feet foR, guys stare at me like I”m some god.
it has proved to be a difficult task to me to convince a girl to love me.but i have been falling in love with several.
Great article mario.. I’v got this huge problem of dealing with my gfs past. She used to love this guy a lot, her first love, but he later on said that it was just to ‘pass the time’. She was really hurt and couldn’t forget him for over a year. Im her new guy and i had this convo with her about her past and whenever she tells me about the good things she did with that guy, she smiles and laughs. She was even suicidal when he said he didnt love her. Mario, it hurts me so much to know that she had amazing time with her ex that she couldnt forget. She now says that she loves me more. Fr some reason, i just wanna know if she really does love me more than him. I’v done a lot more for her than her ex did. It might be awkward, but i wanna know if she will miss me nd still love me after a breakup, will she still be suicidal. I just want her to forget bout her past and just love me like crazy:(
Oh and the ex is a friend of mine. Hurts a lot more right mario?
Hi Dom – well, there’s only one way to go: make your relationship BETTER than the one she had with him. Do new stuff she has never done before, improve on what she did with him, etc. Obviously it’s sad, but it’s in a way normal that your couple has had past experiences as well. And it doesn’t make much sense if you worry that much about how she will be after a breakup. Focus on the now – and if she’s suicidal, you should start thinking whether you it’s the right girl for you! It’s not a joke if a girl is like that – might bring you lots of problems.
Hope this helps!
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