It’s the duty of every man to make his girl feel the very best in the world, the one and only. Doing this helps to build confidence in the couple and bring happiness to both man and woman. Still, not many men understand how they can do this, even if it’s something simple and basic for many of us. Here are a few strategies you could use to make your woman feel better.
Show Love In Public
Showing love in public is a win-win situation. Kiss, hug and touch your girl openly, in front of friends and wherever you go. Make her sit on your lap, hold hands with her… Those are plain, easy and very enjoyable ways of showing love.
Perhaps you or she might be a bit shy about it at the beginning, but don’t let that stop you. It’s definitely something you have to do with any woman you love. This open showing of affections will make her feel safer in her feelings to raise her self esteem. Make her feel the one and only, not only by telling her but also by showing this love you have for her all the time and in every place.
Note: In some Muslim and Asian societies, just to give a few examples, this is not socially accepted and things like kissing are a taboo. In those cases what I advice is for the man to find a way to make her feel loved and to make her feel special all the time, regardless the limitations to showing feelings in public. Find an alternative way to reach the same objective. This could be by achieved just by the way you look and speak to her, for example.
Cuddle More
Cuddling is something that helps bringing couples closer together. In summer at the beach, in autumn under a shedding tree, in spring under the rain or in winter warm in bed, cuddling is just great. Just nothing can beat a strong cuddle anywhere and anytime.
Also, women need to be held and listened to, and cuddling is a perfect way of doing both. It’s an opportunity to spend quality time together, romantic moments and to share all the love you have for each other. For example, to feel each other’s hearts beating, while outside reins a big storm, is the kind of moment that will give a special charm and feeling to the couple.
Make Love, Not Just Sex
As I explained extensively in this old article, sex, plain as it is and without its underlying magic, despite it can give big satisfactions, cannot create a deep bond inside the couple. Men must break the crude monotony of plain physical sex and mix it with romantic, horny talks as well a flood of emotions and fantasies.
Only then having sex will become making love. The power of love in bed will make the relationship go forward still when passion fades away. It’s definitely something all men should strive to do, as it also will make your relationship with her stand out from all the other ones she had before.
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Mind.. Exaggerating with this can lead to problems and, also, some girls and boys just don’t like to be touching, kissing, cuddling etc. But in general terms, this works. The general premise it’s to make her feel special, the one and only. These are a few ways for you to do so. If she doesn’t respond, you can for sure look other possibilities! I’ll try to cover more of them in the future.
It really is an uplifting feeling, to see so many people “cuddling”. :) Lets you forget the troubles of the world, and just be content with the the good things in life.
Agreed, im married and it really does help you to feel loved and closer to eachother.
OMG i want my bf to read this!
How cn i get my b.f 2 read this if hes not on facebook?
All the above is true, yes. but what makes a women beautiful? is it her body, her face, her smile, the way she walks, the way she talks, her laugh. it really amazes me how the label that sites like this has put on women, is the cause of so many women being lonely & sad because they do not qaulify as beautiful. Men & women are just as guilty. Men look at sites like this & set their standards according to the women they see on this site & women dont even have standards anymore because they think because they dont look like any of these women on this site the dont qualify as beautiful. where will it end?
“Just nothing can beat a close, naked cuddle anywhere and anytime.”
Naked, anywhere, anytime?
This sounds like one to please the boys, not the girls.
The article isn’t for little ones, especially those offended by naked cuddles. More mature people, both ladies and men, would appreciate naked cuddles anywhere anytime so long as its legal.
Lucinda, you can just print it out and give it to him, or better yet mail it to him by snail mail. He’ll get the picture. What’s important in a relationship is communication – and so you should let him know how you would like to be treated or what improvements he could make. Doesn’t matter if you let him know directly cos guys don’t take hints very well. With my current boyfriend and my ex, we were open with each other and often discussed these kind of things when the situation called for it and it works. All you need is commitment and communication.
Older Men are like fine old Wine, they become tastier & better with Age. Age is subjective, it is not Age what matters, it’s mileage – meaning Experiences, Successes & Failures and Maturity in general. The possibility to build a healthy relationship if the Age difference between partners is too big, it depends on the compatibility of the couple. Sex is a Skill and the best way to get better at it is practice of performance in developing one’s own technique of perfection by remembering the objective to make your woman have pleasure she will never forget and ask for it repeatedly. I believe in giving woman pleasure, if she desires, it is of course the greatest pleasure she will ever experience. Every true lover knows that the moment of greatest satisfaction comes when ecstasy is long over and he beholds before him the flower which has blossomed beneath his tender loving touch.
Ancient Indian texts such as the “KAMASUTRA” advocate the concept of “SAMBHOG” meaning “Equal Pleasure and Emphasize Sexual Equality and Mutuality”, even listing ways in which a man should satisfy a woman so that “Sexual Pleasure is a Happiness that is Shared”.Indeed without Sex, Humanity would cease to exist.