In relationships, the early stages are always the most thrilling. It’s great to discover you have chemistry with someone, and then slowly getting to know each other intimately. It’s where most of the fun is.

But it doesn’t end all there. A healthy, happy and long-lasting relationship will bring lots of joy and magic too. Only in a sustained relationship can the couple bring the best of each other out, and completely fill each other’s romantic wishes.

There’s, however, one big problem: many (MANY!) couples stay together even when they realize that they don’t really belong with each other. This is when fights start, resentment grows and, in the end, cheating happens. Such relationships should never happen in the fisrt place.

How can you make the difference? Here are three simple concepts that will help you separate a successful long-term relationship from those which that should end early.

1- A Similar Health Philosophy.

Once they score a relationship, some people just let their physical appearance decline. They stop exercising, eating well and soon enough gain weight, bad looks and more. That’s unfair for the other partner, and can cause tensions in the relationship.

In a healthy couple, each partner should show respect to the other by staying fit, healthy and as attractive as they can. If you let yourself go, your partner might start looking around for someone else – and with a reason.

Quick tip for guys: always look at her mother. If she’s fat, bad looking and not fit, expect a same destiny with your partner.

2- Liberty.

It’s nice to have a close and intimate relationship, but it doesn’t have to be everything. Each partner should have his or her own separate life. If you do everything together, you’ll slowly kill the relationship. You must let your partner be free.

This includes maturity, which is essential to the success of the relationship. Letting your partner free demands you to be respecful of his or her time and to understand that she has a life beyond you.

3- Good Sex.

In most relationships the passing years slowly kill the sex drive. Those magical moments from the beginning fade, and sex becomes boring and inconsistent in the long run. This can have terrible consequences and can become a big source of tension in the couple, especially if one partner is less interested in sex than the other.

Insatisfaction in bed then leads to cheating, fights and, eventually, even to a break up. What looked like healthy relationships then falls apart, and a growing resentment starts to grow between the partners.

This doesn’t need to happen. You must talk about sex with your partner often and from the beginning, making clear what you want, what you expect, and the long term conditions. It’s all for the better.

Keys To A Long Term Relationship is a post from: Dating Beautiful Women

Romantic trips are cool – definitely one of the best presents for your girlfriend and for yourself. A few days –or weeks- of serious life and having fun is an experience that can potentiate any relationship. If you have one woman you really love, definitely take her out of town and to one of these five places.

There are endless possibilities, but these five are just one step farther. Most people who write all those “Romantic Holidays” stuff around probably were surely never to a third of all the places I was. This list is made out of wisdom, guys. So read on.

The five most romantic places in the world definitely are:

1- Italy.

There’s no better place in the world to travel than Italy. Despite its small size, Italy has everything. It has snowy mountains, epic cathedrals, paradisiacal beaches and even a city in the water. Couple that with friendly people and superb food and you are upon the best the world has to offer. All you heard about Italy is true is true – It’s that spectacular. Definitely the #1 place to go.

Venice itself, with its medieval architecture, gondolas and canals is already the most romantic place on Earth. Add Florence, Pisa, Rome, Capri and dozens of others cities and you make matters even more magnificent. There’s enough in Italy to please even the most demanding guys and girls.

Take a 10-days or 2-weeks trip around Italy and you’ll have the time of your life. It’s not cheap but it’s worth every penny.

2- Greece.

Greece is perfect. It hosts excellent beaches, friendly people and spectacular food. It’s the closest thing to paradise. I love Greece and so will you and your couple. From sunsets in the paradise of Santorini to delicious wine in Paros, the Greek Islands have it all. Take a cruise or rent a boat and go around the islands in the Aegean. It will be an experience you’ll never forget.

And there’s so much diversity and options that it will fit everyone’s taste. The Ionian Islands, home of the Mythical Ulysses, boost the best beaches in Europe, the traditional charm of the Greek countryside and the grandiosity of Habsburg and English palaces. If you instead want to roam around ancient lost cities and eat the most delicious dinners you could imagine, then the Peloponnesus is your place to go.

Either way, just make sure you are visiting in summer. Only then will you enjoy all the charms and magic these ancient country has to offer.

3- Paris, France.

Paris is unique. It’s the most beautiful city I’ve ever been too. There are cool places around the world, but none matches the grandiosity, class and charm of the French capital. Take your girl to Paris and you won’t go wrong.

Walking the city is a show of itself – and if you are of the cultural-type, you are in your dance. The collection of art in Paris is matched by none. So is the variation of styles the city has. From Notre Dame to Montmartre and the Eiffel Tower, Paris has them all.

Take your girl up to these three, hop on a boat on the Seine and walk along the Champs de Mars and the other unique parks to have the romantic time of your life.

If Paris is not number one on this list is only because Italy and Greece as whole are just too spectacular and out of this world. But if I had to choose one city above all, it would be this one. The City of Light is special for a good reason!

4- Rio de Janeiro, Brazil.

If it were for natural beauty, Rio would definitely be number one. It’s just that beautiful. The morros (mountains), forests and a clear ocean make up a dream place to go to. Couple that with some classy architecture, Christ in the sky and nice looking people to make a dream place.

All you have heard about Rio is true. It’s, however, a bit dirty and dangerous, but worth of the adventure. Just make sure you stay on the best places and do the best stuff. It’s just up to you if you want to live as a king for much more affordable prizes than in Europe.

Also, just a couple of hours away from Rio are spectacular places as Buzios or Angra dos Reis – boosting fantastic beaches and terrific scenery. Go even a bit further and you’ll find virgin beaches and lands, just for you and her. Just that makes the trip to South America all worth it.

5- Buenos Aires, Argentina.

Ok, some of you might think I’m biased as Buenos Aires is my hometown. But really, there’s a lot in Buenos Aires that makes it one of the top romantic spots on the planet. Not as a renowned as the other four, the Argentine capital still boosts a charm to equal that level.

It is no doubts the most European city in the Americas. 19^th Century mansions and palaces flood the city, making it win the motto of the “Paris of the South,” while an influx of the neighboring Latin American culture give it a unique flavor.

Escape winter, feast yourself with the world’s best steaks and spend your nights dancing tango, the sexiest and most sophisticated dance on Earth. Buenos Aires is classy, sophisticated and has so many things you can do that you’ll never be bored. If you want some excitement and something new, come this way.

And come while you can. Buenos Aires is, for now, still cheaper than most high-quality cities around the world. Visit before it’s too late! When you do, you must dance one tango in the salons in San Telmo – Nothing can beat that!

5 Romantic Travel Ideas is a post from: Dating Beautiful Women

Let me tell you some bad news: it’s hard, if not impossible, not to be cheated. Sooner or later, by one reason or the other, your couple might. It’s natural and something that just happens. No matter how perfect you are and how much you try to avoid it, there’s a huge possibility there will be someone else one way or the other.

That’s just a small notice – kind of a way to drag you into reality. The thing is that, despite cheating is almost unavoidable, you can still keep off most of the threats if you play a wise game. Here are a few tips you should take into consideration:

1- Love vs. Insecurity.

I wrote a full article about this one here. The idea is that you shouldn’t settle for less than you want or with someone you don’t really love. It would just avoid all the problems. Just think about it: if your girlfriend isn’t really in love with you it will make sense if she moves on when she finds a better fit.

You would feel the same way. A relationship of insecurity is most times destined to end badly – either by cheating or by a big fight. The best possible outcome would be a chat telling each other you were not really made for one another. It’s just not right.

Instead, relationships of love, where the bond is strong and the attraction way higher, are harder to break. It would take a really special person to come in and destroy your romance. Being with your best pick and in love is the best way to avoid any problem.

2- Be Unpredictable.

Many times people cheat out of pure boredom. It may happen that she really loves and has deep feelings for you, but if you are not a man of adventure and constantly put change and excitement into her life, you could go wrong.

So break the norms and be unpredictable. Never let her guess all of what you are going to do. Surprise her with spectacular presents, with dates, conversations, friends, and fun things to do. Keep the excitement going and make her feel that with no one else will she be as excited and happy as she is with you.

3- Don’t be too Protective.

Have guts and let her go. If she wants to go out with her friends to that horrible hip-hop place, for much you don’t want her to, let her go. Don’t be that kind of man who is always looking around for her, calling her twice, thrice or more per hour or sending a million messages when she is not with you or with someone else. Let her be independent.

And you should expect the same for you too. I came up with the following rule to great results:: if I need you or want you to be with me, you are coming my way and no exceptions. No questions asked and whatever you are doing, you come. Hardly, if ever, I use the rule, but I still state is a way of showing your authority.

I give her the same right and whenever she needs me, I’m there. It’s like a safe-lock that I use to keep the relationship strong despite all independence. Just, again, make sure neither of you abuses. The moment you abuse your authority, it’s over. Same for her.

4- She is a Queen.

Be splendid – make your girlfriend feel the luckiest girl in the world. No one else in the universe has to be, in your eyes, most important and lovely than her. Make her feel that – make her know how much you love her.

There are thousands of ways to do this. Buy her a dinner or a random present. Cuddle, touch her, grab her hand in public and kiss her everywhere. She has to feel she is the most wanted girl on the planet. Be that good that she’ll be grateful everyday of having such an excellent boyfriend as you are.

5- Deliver in Bed.

But, mind, no matter how good you are in the above four, you must still deliver in bed. If she is unsatisfied with her sex life your relationship will be doomed, no matter what. So take as something serious.

Don’t rush and make her pleasure your priority. Make her orgasm multiple times, be unpredictable in bed and drive her to the craziest of her fantasies. Do that every day and keep the spark alive at all times.

Go beyond basics and make sex with you the best she can get. Practice, learn, speak and do all those things a master lover would do. If you don’t there will be dozens of men waiting to have their own chance.

How To Avoid Cheating is a post from: Dating Beautiful Women

Most men don’t realize the huge impact you can have in any women just by picking the right present. Presents are a unique way to immediately make you stand out from all the rest.

There are two things that will make your presents unforgettable. Take note:

1- Making them the highest quality possible.
2- Giving the present a unique touch of charm.

These two are universal, straight-forward and will make any present special. Quality will seduce everyone, while that unique touch of charm will make you especially attractive.

The Highest Quality

This is self-explaining. I rather buy something smaller and less spectacular as long as it’s of outstanding quality. You should too. To put in an extreme example, a tiny but well polished diamond ring outclasses any other with a bigger and more flamboyant stone.

The same applies to any kind of present. If you want to surprise and live up to the highest expectations, buy the best. Whoever receives the present will love it.

The obvious argument against this is money. Quality doesn’t come cheap. But if you want to attract the most beautiful women, it’s your duty to put the best in. You’ll have to spend if you want to be around the best girls. If you can’t spend much, at least try your best. Girls notice it.

The Unique Touch of Charm

A diamond or a brunch of flowers is amazing. But these two are just material. You are the only one who can transform them into something more. It’s your duty as a man and also the way to make the present unforgettable. It’s what the special guys do.

And to make the present and the situation special is easy and won’t take you that long. It’s all about pressing the right keys. You have to make the presents touch and move girls’ deepest feelings.

Here are a few examples:

• A few years ago I wrote a few pages of love, poems and stories on a paper notebook every day. After more than a month and with lots of material in there I gave the notebook to the special girl.
• This girl loved a special Swiss chocolate that was almost impossible to find in Argentina. So I imported the chocolate, melted it and then modeled it into hearts and other romantic thingies.

These are small things, but they are not easy to forget. Try to do something in the likes of this, with your unique touch and all the charm you can. Mind: It’s not meant to be easy. You’ll have to think and work hard!

The only downside about this one is that with time it will make matters tough. It’s very hard to come up with new ideas every time and you might slightly disappoint if you don’t live up to your expectations. But this is nothing compared to the huge benefits you can have.

Best Presents For Girls is a post from: Dating Beautiful Women

One of the cruelest and most terrifying things men can hear is: “Let’s just be friends.” If that’s what the girl told you, you are almost out of the race. It’s usually a point of no-return and the best advice to get out of it is never to get in at all.

Getting In The Friends Zone

A girl will say that in one of the following situations:

1- She doesn’t find you attractive.
2- She knows she can do whatever she wants with you.

Number 1 is quite straight forward. Maybe you are just not her type: she doesn’t like how you look or how you dress, you are not interesting, not fun, etc. It can happen. You are not going to be attractive to every girl you meet. It’s part of the game and the wise choice is to move on.

Number 2 is especially problematic. If you are too ass-kissing, too nice and too accommodating you have big chances of falling in the Friend Zone. She’ll know she can have you just by raising a finger. It’s the case when you are trying everything to impress her, following her every step and dedicating all your efforts just for her.

While this may make you look special and romantic, most girls will feel that they can do whatever they want with you. They will be in command of the relationship and will know they can have you any time they wish. They know you’ll wait for them and keep trying to get them.

Avoiding The Friends Zone

The best advice for avoiding the Friends Zone is not to make her feel you are dead for her. You have to be the one who is in control, not her. Manage your times, don’t always say “yes” and be a challenge.

It’s ok if you want to have romantic dates and show interest. But don’t act as a boyfriend just yet. Instead, tease her a bit, go out with other girls, make her be a bit jealous and, above all, be unpredictable.

Don’t give her the chance to feel she can do whatever she wants with you. Even if it hurts you, try hard and try your best.

The Exception

Sometimes you’ll fall in the Friends Zone no matter how much you try. Don’t get too frustrated about it: move on, but move on wisely. A real man won’t stop calling, talking and meeting with her.

But be cool: date other girls, talk about your love problems and make it clear she can’t do what she wants with you anymore. Don’t be the friend who is there for her to cry with, to talk when she is bored, etc.

Be the cool friend instead. Be the one who she could go out and have a lot of fun with. Resist the temptation and let go those thoughts of sleeping together. As long as you can cope with it, you got a winner. There’s no better value-riser as having beautiful women friends to go out with.

Friends Zone is a post from: Dating Beautiful Women