The magic of a real, physical letter cannot be duplicated by any of the new forms of communication. A letter is, in the end, something tangible, something we can touch, keep and hold and that can be preserved in a way that emails, phone calls or text messages will never be.

A love letter is an actual testament of love – and it’s a record of your relationship that will stay with your woman for the rest of her life.

It’s not cheesy and it’s by no means outdated – writing a love letter is a beautiful and very romantic thing to do, and receiving one can really mean a lot for your girl.

A girl cannot hear too many times that you love her and she’s beautiful – she’ll never get sick of it. You must keep telling her over and over, no matter for how long you have been together. It matters – and a letter is one of the best ways to do it.

This guide is meant for those of you who have a girlfriend already. I don’t suggest writing love letters to girls you haven’t been with it – at least not without a careful analysis of her case. But then, if you are single, use the ideas an inspiration for your seduction!

How to Write a Love Letter

It doesn’t matter if you are not a good writer. What matters with a letter is that you are true and honest about your feelings – that from the bottom of your heart you believe what you are writing.

There’s no structure, or exact how-to to write them. But if you are lacking ideas, you should definitely work on these areas:

1- Keep Telling Her How Great She Is And How Much You Love Her

Again, it’s never enough. Tell her how beautiful she is and how much you love her – keep telling her, she WON’T get tired of it.

What are the nicest things about her? Is it her eyes? If so, write her that you love her eyes, and so on. Tell her that you love her for her personality, and be precise about what exactly is what drives your love for her.

2- Recall Great Moments You Had Together

Write about your best times with her – trips, dinners, walks, conversations and just plain random moments. Tell her how great they were, and how much you enjoyed those moments with her.

Recall the feelings and magic from the moment – you holding hands, your breath, your kisses, and the smiles, vibe and love that you have in your memory.

3- Tell Her How Being With Her Makes Your Life Better

It’s a very strong thing to say – but, at least I, if I’m with a girl it’s because she makes me a better person. Not all girls are equal – a couple inspire, others are plain loving and others are very supportive. Find out which type(s) is your girl and tell her how great she makes you feel.

This is where you put the smart compliments – those from deep inside and those that matter most. If you are very inspired that your girlfriend got a new job, got into a school, or whatever thing she did – TELL HER. Tell her how watching her makes you fight for more. Same if she supports you, etc.

4- Speak About Future Adventures and Good Moments to Come

Future Adventure Projections, as I wrote, are very powerful – and they work well not only while you try to seduce girls, but also if you have one already. They keep the spark lit, and they make girls think and meditate about the good times to come with you.

Tell your girl you are looking forward for more hugs and kisses, for great times to come and, also, point out one or two things you want (and will) do with her. This is probably the most important part of all!

5- Reaffirm Your Love to Her

It’s never enough! Close the letter telling her how happy you are to be with her, how great she is and that there’s no other girl in the world that can come close to her. Tell her you love her no matter what, and that you will keep loving her today, tomorrow and for much more time.

Last Details

Post the Letter. Be old fashioned – put the stamp, seal the card and send it via the good old postal mail. It’s old fashioned, but it will surprise her much more. She’ll be browsing for the bills and stuff and voila, there’s your letter. She’ll love it.

Be Spontaneous. Be random – just write her one day out of the blue without any special purpose or special reason. The least she expects the letter, the more surprised she will be, and the stronger the effects will be. Don’t wait to her birthday, why not write her tomorrow?

And I mean it – why not, if you have a girlfriend, write her a love letter NOW? I totally recommend you to! And I’m looking forward for all of you to share your experiences in the comments below.

How to Write a Love Letter is a post from: Dating Beautiful Women

Much more than men, girls are in general insecure. They are insecure about their body: breast size, ass, weight, hair, and also, sometimes, about life itself. Girls are stronger than before, and equal to men in almost every way – but those insecurities persist.

Sometimes they are quite obvious – especially when girls are young. I’ve met dozens of girls feeling ‘sad’ that they breast were not big, and also feeling bad (and sometimes even miserable) about their weight going up. And it’s all not just limited to the body – “I’ll never find a good job”, “I’m not smart enough”, and those types of thinking are more common than you could imagine.

And that’s an open window for us guys to raise girl’s self-esteem. Compliment and give LOVE!

Especially when you are in a relationship, make sure to play down these ‘problems’, and make girls believe they are great and those ‘problems’ are nothing to you.  Make them feel great about their body, their personalities and tell them their future is bright.

This is very powerful – girls need to be told all this, and you can make them anchor good feelings towards you. Few guys do this smartly – and, if you do it right, you can achieve stronger relationships and you will receive, in return, a lot of love yourself.

I tell my girlfriend that’s she’s the smartest, most beautiful and best possible girlfriend in the world – every moment and every time. I do it in a way that is not fake – when I say her breasts are beautiful, I spend twenty minutes kissing, touching and playing with them. Same with each part of the body.

It’s never enough – you can ALWAYS, all the time, keep telling your girl how great she is. Don’t worry about she thinking “she’s too in love with me”, and all that stuff – just do it.  Everyone loves to be complimented, and especially if it’s by that special someone they have.

The only rule (if it can be called that way) to be careful is that your girl should always know that if she messes up with you, it’s over. You have all that love and passion for her – but the moment she screws up, no matter how much you love her, it’s over. If you can stand up to that, you can control all this at your will.

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How to Deal With Girls’ Insecurities is a post from: Dating Beautiful Women

There’s no secret on how to be the perfect boyfriend. The trick, the silver bullet, is and has been there for long. It turns out, though, that most men decide to foolishly ignore it.

This is, you MUST make your girlfriend feel special. You MUST make her feel the one and only.

If she feels this way, you are guaranteed a happy relationship.

People (and girls) need attention and to feel loved. Most people are naturally insecure, and if you tackle this problem you are going to immediately stand out.

This all fits within the psychology of attraction. Girls, no matter how independent, still need to feel protected.

A charismatic, alpha guy wins because he makes the girl feel, in her deep subconscious, that she’s protected from threat. A good lover takes this one extra step – protecting her from her own insecurities and emotions. He makes a connection so deep that she just feels right.

Few men ever TRY to get to this deep emotion, and that’s where you can really stand out. There’s always one more charismatic, alpha guy she can feel attracted. However, there are few, if any, guys that will make her feel great from the inside.

This doesn’t mean you have to be a hyper sensible, emotional type of guy. No – you need to be the alpha guy PLUS make her feel unique. Be that guy and girls will never want to leave you.

3 Easy Ways of Making Her Feel Special

1- Choose the Right Girl

I can’t say ‘I love you’ to a girl I don’t really love. I can’t make a girl feel special if she’s not. You’ll find the same dilemma – if you are with someone who is not your fit, all this won’t work.

And here’s where most problems arise – most people just never choose right. It’s ridiculous, but guy’s and gal’s obsessions with not being alone is most times what dooms relationships from the start.

If you are with a girl you really like and love all this will come in NATURAL. It will make the road much, much easier for you.

2- Say It

You won’t make girls feel special if you don’t speak.

Tell your girl how great she is – praise her, compliment her, tell her she’s beautiful and always tell her how much you love her. It will never get old. NEVER.

3- Show Love in Public

If you don’t show love in public, the girl might think “there’s something wrong with ME, and that’s why he doesn’t want to kiss me in front of people.” Women REALLY think that – and they feeling you want is the complete opposite.

Make girls feel that it’s all great with them. If you kiss, hold hands, hug or do some other spontaneous gesture of love in public, you’ll be taking the steps in the right direction.

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How to Be the Perfect Boyfriend is a post from: Dating Beautiful Women

In relationships, the early stages are always the most thrilling. It’s great to discover you have chemistry with someone, and then slowly getting to know each other intimately. It’s where most of the fun is.

But it doesn’t end all there. A healthy, happy and long-lasting relationship will bring lots of joy and magic too. Only in a sustained relationship can the couple bring the best of each other out, and completely fill each other’s romantic wishes.

There’s, however, one big problem: many (MANY!) couples stay together even when they realize that they don’t really belong with each other. This is when fights start, resentment grows and, in the end, cheating happens. Such relationships should never happen in the fisrt place.

How can you make the difference? Here are three simple concepts that will help you separate a successful long-term relationship from those which that should end early.

1- A Similar Health Philosophy.

Once they score a relationship, some people just let their physical appearance decline. They stop exercising, eating well and soon enough gain weight, bad looks and more. That’s unfair for the other partner, and can cause tensions in the relationship.

In a healthy couple, each partner should show respect to the other by staying fit, healthy and as attractive as they can. If you let yourself go, your partner might start looking around for someone else – and with a reason.

Quick tip for guys: always look at her mother. If she’s fat, bad looking and not fit, expect a same destiny with your partner.

2- Liberty.

It’s nice to have a close and intimate relationship, but it doesn’t have to be everything. Each partner should have his or her own separate life. If you do everything together, you’ll slowly kill the relationship. You must let your partner be free.

This includes maturity, which is essential to the success of the relationship. Letting your partner free demands you to be respecful of his or her time and to understand that she has a life beyond you.

3- Good Sex.

In most relationships the passing years slowly kill the sex drive. Those magical moments from the beginning fade, and sex becomes boring and inconsistent in the long run. This can have terrible consequences and can become a big source of tension in the couple, especially if one partner is less interested in sex than the other.

Insatisfaction in bed then leads to cheating, fights and, eventually, even to a break up. What looked like healthy relationships then falls apart, and a growing resentment starts to grow between the partners.

This doesn’t need to happen. You must talk about sex with your partner often and from the beginning, making clear what you want, what you expect, and the long term conditions. It’s all for the better.

The Top 3 Keys To A Long Term Relationship is a post from: Dating Beautiful Women

Romantic trips are cool – definitely one of the best presents for your girlfriend and for yourself. A few days –or weeks- of serious life and having fun is an experience that can potentiate any relationship. If you have one woman you really love, definitely take her out of town and to one of these five places.

There are endless possibilities, but these five are just one step farther. Most people who write all those “Romantic Holidays” stuff around probably were surely never to a third of all the places I was. This list is made out of wisdom, guys. So read on.

The five most romantic places in the world definitely are:

1- Italy.

There’s no better place in the world to travel than Italy. Despite its small size, Italy has everything. It has snowy mountains, epic cathedrals, paradisiacal beaches and even a city in the water. Couple that with friendly people and superb food and you are upon the best the world has to offer. All you heard about Italy is true is true – It’s that spectacular. Definitely the #1 place to go.

Venice itself, with its medieval architecture, gondolas and canals is already the most romantic place on Earth. Add Florence, Pisa, Rome, Capri and dozens of others cities and you make matters even more magnificent. There’s enough in Italy to please even the most demanding guys and girls.

Take a 10-days or 2-weeks trip around Italy and you’ll have the time of your life. It’s not cheap but it’s worth every penny.

2- Greece.

Greece is perfect. It hosts excellent beaches, friendly people and spectacular food. It’s the closest thing to paradise. I love Greece and so will you and your couple. From sunsets in the paradise of Santorini to delicious wine in Paros, the Greek Islands have it all. Take a cruise or rent a boat and go around the islands in the Aegean. It will be an experience you’ll never forget.

And there’s so much diversity and options that it will fit everyone’s taste. The Ionian Islands, home of the Mythical Ulysses, boost the best beaches in Europe, the traditional charm of the Greek countryside and the grandiosity of Habsburg and English palaces. If you instead want to roam around ancient lost cities and eat the most delicious dinners you could imagine, then the Peloponnesus is your place to go.

Either way, just make sure you are visiting in summer. Only then will you enjoy all the charms and magic these ancient country has to offer.

3- Paris, France.

Paris is unique. It’s the most beautiful city I’ve ever been too. There are cool places around the world, but none matches the grandiosity, class and charm of the French capital. Take your girl to Paris and you won’t go wrong.

Walking the city is a show of itself – and if you are of the cultural-type, you are in your dance. The collection of art in Paris is matched by none. So is the variation of styles the city has. From Notre Dame to Montmartre and the Eiffel Tower, Paris has them all.

Take your girl up to these three, hop on a boat on the Seine and walk along the Champs de Mars and the other unique parks to have the romantic time of your life.

If Paris is not number one on this list is only because Italy and Greece as whole are just too spectacular and out of this world. But if I had to choose one city above all, it would be this one. The City of Light is special for a good reason!

4- Rio de Janeiro, Brazil.

If it were for natural beauty, Rio would definitely be number one. It’s just that beautiful. The morros (mountains), forests and a clear ocean make up a dream place to go to. Couple that with some classy architecture, Christ in the sky and nice looking people to make a dream place.

All you have heard about Rio is true. It’s, however, a bit dirty and dangerous, but worth of the adventure. Just make sure you stay on the best places and do the best stuff. It’s just up to you if you want to live as a king for much more affordable prizes than in Europe.

Also, just a couple of hours away from Rio are spectacular places as Buzios or Angra dos Reis – boosting fantastic beaches and terrific scenery. Go even a bit further and you’ll find virgin beaches and lands, just for you and her. Just that makes the trip to South America all worth it.

5- Buenos Aires, Argentina.

Ok, some of you might think I’m biased as Buenos Aires is my hometown. But really, there’s a lot in Buenos Aires that makes it one of the top romantic spots on the planet. Not as a renowned as the other four, the Argentine capital still boosts a charm to equal that level.

It is no doubts the most European city in the Americas. 19^th Century mansions and palaces flood the city, making it win the motto of the “Paris of the South,” while an influx of the neighboring Latin American culture give it a unique flavor.

Escape winter, feast yourself with the world’s best steaks and spend your nights dancing tango, the sexiest and most sophisticated dance on Earth. Buenos Aires is classy, sophisticated and has so many things you can do that you’ll never be bored. If you want some excitement and something new, come this way.

And come while you can. Buenos Aires is, for now, still cheaper than most high-quality cities around the world. Visit before it’s too late! When you do, you must dance one tango in the salons in San Telmo – Nothing can beat that!

The Top 5 Romantic Travel Destinations is a post from: Dating Beautiful Women