There’s no science behind the ‘kissing moment’ – it’s, usually, pretty straight forward. A girl ready to be kissed will, most importantly:

• Let you touch her without resistance (and touches you in return)
• Wet her lips slightly (or looks at your lips)
• Talk more sexually (or will be much more open to talk about sex)

A longer list – covering when is a girl interested can be found here.

But then, in some cases the situation is not clear – you know there’s attraction, there’s something going on but you are not sure if she’s ready, in the mood or if things have been going that well as to shoot for the kiss.

The dumbest thing to do here is to leave without actually finding out. You should aim for a kiss close in most situations – especially if you are alone and away from others (friends, relatives, acquaintances, etc).

Below are a few options of how to approach the kiss moment:

The Request Kiss Close

Avoid asking “Can I kiss you?” – you’ll put her too much on the pedestal, and you’ll make it easy for her to reject you.

Instead, ask “Would you like to kiss me?”- she won’t say ‘yes’, but, in this case, any answer that’s not an outright ‘no’ is good.

She could say she doesn’t know, and all that stuff girls say – but then it’s when you say, “Let’s find out” and go and kiss her. The ‘don’t know’ part comes usually if she’s a bit nervous about the implications, about the environment you are, etc.

If she does say ‘NO!’, make fun of her, tell her she’s ruining the moment, if she’s always that hard, etc. Don’t take it personally and be playful!

The Foreign Girls Challenge Kiss Close

This one is one I have abused a bit during my travels and now that I live abroad. When you think you are already at a high level of rapport, touchy, etc, ask the girl if she prefers foreigners or locals – and tell her you prefer foreigners.

When she asks “why?” – tell her that local girls don’t know how to kiss properly. Argument a bit, and then just say ‘let’s find out’ and kiss her passionately.

The 10-Scale Challenge Kiss Close

This one is also pretty good. Ask a girl to rate herself, on a scale of 1 to 10, on how good kisser she think she is. Be playful, but at the same time challenge her – you want to inspire a few emotions.

Then just kiss her – and then, after only a bit of kissing, say “that was terrible! Let’s do it again to see what you’ve really got!”

The Hug Kiss Close

This one is playful – good especially if the girl has friends in common with you, etc. Just tell her, when you are at the end of the date, “well, give me a good hug – it’s too song for a first kiss.”

Give her a good hug, and then, without letting her go too much, tell her “well, now that we have passed the hugging stage, we can finally kiss.” Kiss her before she says anything!

Ending Note

One last fact here: if a girl doesn’t want to kiss you, she WON’T KISS YOU. It doesn’t matter how many closes you know, how good you are at them, etc.

The closes will only work if there’s enough attraction – they’ll make it easier because she’ll have less time to think, it will be funny, etc. Plus, they are an excuse for hell as well – she can then say ‘you kissed me’ and not ‘we kissed’, and will help herself feel a bit ‘harder’ than she was (girls don’t like to be ‘easy’!)

I’ll share a few more closes next week – in the meantime, read this guide on how to improve your kissing.

When and How to Kiss Your Date is a post from: Dating Beautiful Women

Last month I joined the International CBS Choir in Copenhagen. I never imagined myself singing, and even less now that I’m especially busy.

But hey – there’s a catch, a catch that dragged me in and will drag any other courageous guy as well.  In the choir I sing, there are around 60 girls (!), and, counting me, there are ONLY SEVEN GUYS.

This is not a Danish phenomenon – apparently choirs round the world are filled with young, beautiful and lovely ladies and only a handful of guys.

Only ballet and some random dancing lessons have such a magical ratio.

Best, unlike at the club, bar or even at cafes, the girls at the choir are all nice, friendly and very open.

A choir is a single guy’s paradise, and I strongly suggest you to make some time to join one.

You Can Also Join a Choir

My family, friends and even my girlfriend labeled me as a ‘horrible, pathetic singer’, with ‘no hope in a choir’. This is in a way true  – I’ve barely sung anything in my life. I didn’t even try at the shower, and now I was planning to join the ranks of these pros.

Many of you might feel identified – I bet that most of you rather spend time playing sports, videogames, drinking with friends, or practically everything else rather than SINGING.

But it’s all good. The magic of these choirs is that there are plenty of people out there – it’s not that you are singing solo. There are 50 or more people singing along. And if you think you are THAT bad, a bit of help and practice will do you do – or you can just sing low as well.

And it’s not all about the girls. Singing makes you happy – it cheers you up, it energizes you. I’ve a long, dark and cold Scandinavian winter coming up soon, and I’m counting on the choir to keep me cheerful.

Singing is Sexy

All girls love the guys who sing or play music.

You won’t be the exception – girls at the choir and outside the choir will find it cool and sexy that you sing. It will up your game immediately – and more as you get even better.

And at the choir all girls will be very much looking forward to have a conversation with you – much more than if you meet them at the club.

Singing creates bonding – there’s energy in the air, passion and a situation that is unlike any other. It’s an atmosphere that makes socialization and getting to know one another very easy.

Last Thoughts

Trust me – join a choir, go sing, spice your life up and meet a lot of nice girls. The sole of thought of it IS crazy, your friends will laugh at you… But just do it. If you want to meet girls, it is a place you don’t want to miss. Plus singing is a wonderful thing.

If you are still not convinced, however, remember: think outside the box. Don’t go and hunt for girls where all the other guys do. Don’t go and compete for the low-quality girls all the other guys are going for. Up your game and do outrageous things.

Joining a choir is one of such things. There are many more – and I’ll help you find the right one for you.

One Place With 8 Girls For Every 1 Guy is a post from: Dating Beautiful Women

There’s no single technique or trick as effective as projecting adventures together. It’s the most powerful thing you can ever do with a girl, and it’s ridiculously under used.

Most girls would like to have a more exciting life. It’s not that they don’t like their own, or that they find it boring – it’s just that a mundane, normal life is unexciting by default.

People love traveling and extreme experiences because they are exciting, they break the norm – they are different. Everyone likes a break in the rules.

Everyone longs for adventure, for excitement – if you want to win, position yourself as THE option for it.

You Are an Adventurer

First, be an adventurer yourself – break the norms, do crazy stuff. Travel and see the world. Be spontaneous. Invent or start something – you must be special yourself if you want to break the norm.

It’s not realistic if you are the usual boring, cubicle guy and you promise her weeks and months of fun and adventure. You must have something cool in your life resume – be a bit of an artist, a painter, a writer, an spontaneous guy. Do epic shit, do crazy stuff.

I’m writing this from Lapland, north of the Arctic Circle. I’m here for a few days – riding reindeers, playing with huskies and watching the northern lights, all while I’m the -30 C freeze me a bit.

People call me crazy (which I am), but then THIS IS ADVENTURE. People (and girls) are speaking about this with their friends – oh, Mario is in Lapland. He’s doing this, he’s doing that. People are excited about it – even if they are not here.

If I take a girl, and tell her we’ll do something as cool TOGETHER, she’ll inevitably believe me. I do this all the time – though never project them in a place as cold as Lapland!

Easy and Concrete Examples

But the best part is that you don’t need to come all the way to the North Pole to be exciting. Here are two more personal examples of very cheap (read: free) adventures.

The 5-Star Hotel Sneak

I wrote about this one in the past – I really dragged a girl to one of the best hotels in Buenos Aires and used all the facilities without paying a cent. Illegal – can get me to jail, etc. Luckily it went all right – we used the huge pool, the sauna and even ordered food.

It was not about sneaking in (we both could pay a couple of nights there), but it’s about the adventure. It’s the trick of being crazy, of doing something exciting. This girl told EVERYONE we met how great of an adventure that was it.

Now, you don’t even need to do it. It’s enough if you already SAY IT. Again, this is about projecting future adventures. As I’ve the precedent, next time I tell a girl about this she can really believe I’ll take her to do something as crazy.

Let’s Dance Tango in the Streets

I’m Argentinean, and as such have all this (supposed) Latino-charm, plus the blessing of being from the “land of tango.” Tango, in case you don’t know, is probably the most sensual dance there is. I’m no expert, but I still know how to dance it.
I’ve told girls, after a couple of drinks,“ let’s dance tango in the streets”. “Let’s suit up – let’s look all nice and dance a tango in (insert a cool place in your city). It will be fun.”

I give details – “just imagine, you and me. People watching, people clapping – I’ll teach you the steps, the tricks. It will be fun.” I go on for a while, and always emphasize the ‘fun’ part of it.

I got models and some ‘impossible’ girls with this very trick – even if we then never actually did it.

And you don’t need to dance tango or sneak to a 5-star hotel to have an adventure. The point is to do something exciting – something that involves HER as a protagonist, and that will be a moment to remember.

What does she want to do in her life? What are her dreams? Is there ONE adventure she’s longing for? If you position yourself as the solution, or the ‘highway’ to such adventure, you’ll GET THAT GIRL.

Fictional Stories Work

This works even if you project something entirely fictional. As long as you carefully project you two doing something fun together, the trick WILL WORK.

It all comes down to how good of a storyteller you are. Do role-plays together – make her imagine things, make her picture exciting, funny moments together in her mind.

This is the single most powerful aphrodisiac there is. Try it out, and you won’t be disappointed.

The One Technique I Use to Get ANY Girl I Want is a post from: Dating Beautiful Women

It’s possible (and actually easier) to get girls that have a boyfriend. Last time I told you why, and this time I’ll give you a few high-quality lines to try out.

But be careful! There are two stages to the “boyfriend game” – if she comes up with “I have a boyfriend” too early, she could be lying or just wanting to get rid of you.

Don’t use the list below in THAT moment – wait and build more attraction first. The line should work as the bridge when she’s already indecisive on whether to cheat or not.

Here’s the list:

(I have a boyfriend) “Good! It will give you something to do when I’m not around.”

(I have a boyfriend) “How many boyfriends do you have?” (Just one) “Just one? I think you should have at least 2”

(I have a boyfriend) “*Laughing* Hey, I just met you and you’re already telling me your problems?”

”I think we should get together and do X on Xday.” (I have a boyfriend) “Okay so Xday at 8 it is! Dress sexy.”

(I have a boyfriend) “Well I’m not inviting HIM, just YOU.”

(I have a boyfriend) “So when’s the wedding? I mean, since he’s meeting EVERY DESIRE you have, exactly the way YOU NEED IT FULFILLED, you must be planning on marriage, right? That way you can spend the REST OF YOUR LIFE, just with him, forever and ever and ever. That’s so sweet!”

(I have a boyfriend) “Well, we’re gonna have to be really careful when we sneak around then” (Sorry, I can’t. NOT gonna happen) “Of course not! I was just testing you. So let’s see, how about this Saturday evening? Tell him you have to meet the girls for a Tupperware party or something and sneak over to my house.” (No way) “Of course not! How could you ever live with yourself? Ok, I’ll put the champagne on ice around 7, so if you get to my house by around 8, it should be perfect.”

(I have a boyfriend) “Great! I have a girlfriend. So your boyfriend won’t mind. Just two friends getting together!” (You have a girlfriend? What’s yourgirlfriend’s name?) “What day is it today?” (Xday) “Well then, my girlfriend’s name is Maria…”

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Top 8 Lines to Make “I Have a Boyfriend” Irrelevant is a post from: Dating Beautiful Women

Boyfriends are overrated.

In the past, every time I heard the word “boyfriend” I thought I was doomed – no chances, not going anywhere, etc. In the end, I always backed off, tail between the legs, and moved on to the next girl. Not good when it was a girl I especially liked.

Now, with a bit more mileage and experience, I don’t care about boyfriends anymore. And guess what – you shouldn’t worry about them too much either. In fact, look forward for the girl to have a boyfriend.

Think about it this way: boyfriends make us a favor. They go and filter much of the annoying, not-so-confident-in-themselves competition and pave the way for us to have it MUCH EASIER with the girl.

Instead of competing against 100s of new different guys every day, you are up against just ONE guy the whole time. This makes everything more simple.

Sometimes there’s real love going and she won’t cheat – and in those cases you’ll have it pretty hard, if not impossible. But I’ve found that to be a very small percentage – much smaller than you would first imagine.

Then, there are three things you should know:

1) NEVER Bash Her Boyfriend

She’ll get defensive and support him. She’ll anchor good feelings for him and bad for you – never, ever do it. Even if SHE is the one bashing her boyfriend, don’t second her. The best way to get rid of the boyfriend is to eliminate him from any conversation (and replace him with you).

2) Don’t Compare Yourself With Her Boyfriend

The same applies if you try to convince her you are better than her boyfriend. Don’t do it – show off how amazing you are without speaking about the guy. Make him totally irrelevant.

You don’t need to tell her you are cooler, smarter and more handsome that her boyfriend. Let her do the reasoning.

3) Make Her Believe That She’ll Be Better With YOU

Make her imagine you two together – make her imagine all those amazing, future adventures you could have together.

Make her believe that she’ll have a more exciting, fun and interesting life if she chooses you. Project to the future: we’ll do this, we’ll do that, and we’ll do more of this.

Do this and keep doing it. She has to feel that if there’s ONE man in the world life would be exciting with, that’s you.

(This is SO important that I’ll write a whole article about it in the future)

There’s One Con…

There’s a flip side though. If this girl is very special for you and you finally get her off the hands of someone, be prepared and assume that the same could happen to you in the future. Never fool yourself to think you are an exception to any rule!

I’ll be back on Friday with a List of Boyfriend Destroyers – pick up lines especially made to make the boyfriend irrelevant.

How to Get a Girl With a Boyfriend is a post from: Dating Beautiful Women