Once a while I want to share a story with you.

This (craziest) adventure happened just a bit more than a month ago. It was a cold, rainy Saturday morning in Copenhagen – pretty much the norm in this side of the globe, and I was chilling in bed with my girlfriend.

Nothing too special – we were just chatting, watching some series and resting a bit after a long and hard-worked week. After a while, with midday soon approaching and no plans for the day, we started brainstorming about what we could do…

Cinema? It had been a while since the last time…

Eating brunch out? Maybe…

The rain and cold also crossed out most outside activities from the list – it was just not the best day to walk through the parks, go biking or do any outdoor thing.

And then my genius (!) struck – “Do you want to PARIS?”

Tour Eiffel, Champs-Élysées, Notre Dame… There’s certainly a lot to see in Paris, and, as I told her, “the weather there must be much better as well”.

She first thought I was joking (who wouldn’t?), but I was pretty serious about it. Soon I was scheduling the flights, checking prices, etc.

By the look in her face she looked quite uncomfortable. In a way, happy – but in the other, stupefied that she could very soon be on a plane.

Though she had been as far as India and to dozens of countries in Europe, she had famously skipped Paris from her adventures. Saving it? Coincidence? A bit of all, she said – so the first visit would always be special.

In any case, we both needed to be back the next day already, as we had important commitments the next Monday morning. So, between this and that, the deal was going to be for just one day in Paris – couple of hours less, couple of hours more.

The magic moment was when after filling out my details, selecting all the flights, etc I parked the cursor just over the ‘buy’ button. It was quite a bit of money (last-minute deals my ass, and I paid). It was 9.30 and the flight was leaving at 11.45 – very, very soon.

So I asked her again – “do you want to go to Paris?”

After a big smile and a nervous ‘yes’ I pressed the button and bought the flights. I quickly got my ID, packaged very few things on my bag and we set out for the airport.

She didn’t have time to go to her place and change or look for anything. She just took her bag and we went straight to the airport.

Here’s also where Europe is wonderful. When traveling between most EU countries (both Denmark and France are EU) you don’t need your passports – just the ID card. And, no matter how expensive the last-minute deal was, Paris is just two hours away from Copenhagen by plane.

The whole way to the airport, while at the airport and while flying, all she told me was that I was “very crazy” and that she as very much out of her comfort zone. She’s quite Nordic, and people here are not this spontaneous at all – most things are planned in advance and trips are not the exception.

But then we got to Paris. I was also in a bit of ecstasy – it was my fifth time in the city, but none of the previous was this random and this special.

I knew a good, well-located and well-priced hotel from my past visits, so we first went there, left our bags, grabbed a quick take-away food and then we set off to roam around Paris.

It took her a bit of time – but after walking a few blocks next to the Seine River she told me “I’m very happy Mario” for the first time in the day. She really was – I could see it on her eyes. They were two deep blue lights shining.

She would tell me she was very happy a hundred more times as we went down to the Louvre, cruised the Champ de Mars and climbed to the very top of the Eiffel Tower.

Every bit of the day was filled with magic – I couldn’t have asked for something better. It was kind-of a dream – Paris, a girl I loved, spontaneous… For much it was for her, it was a lot in for me as well. I was enjoying every second.

At one point, we bought a bottle of wine, sat next to magnificent Hotel des Invalides (where the one and only Napoleon rests), and drank a few glasses for love.

It was the right time to cheer for our good relationship, for how lucky we were to have each other, for the good times to come and much more.

And that’s a good time and place to talk about the future. When she’s so happy and full of love it’s the right moment to step up, add some points to the agenda and have her sink them in.

“We are in Paris now – but I’ll take you to Asia, to the Americas and beyond” – “I’m happy you are happy, and I’m looking forward to make you even more happy in the future”.

Guys, once you do such an investment, the smart thing to do is to profit from it. And profit doesn’t mean wild sex or the fulfillment of some other fetish.

Profit it’s all about getting your girl VERY, and I mean VERY (!) much in love in you. When there’s that much love on the table then it all comes easy.

By the time we finished the wine it was already past midnight, and, tired and worn out from sightseeing and lots of walking, we headed to our place for the night.

We work up relatively early, quickly packed, checked out, ate some fine French pastry and went for some more sightseeing. That’s what made the most sense to both – “let’s enjoy PARIS (vs. the hotel, guys!) and profit every minute we have here”

So flew away the last couple of hours in France – more strong hand-holding, hugging and kissing in the streets of one of the world’s most beautiful cities.

It was a blast, and by the time we were boarding our return flight I knew I had done the right thing. It was crazy, expensive and way too random – but it was GREAT.

I’m sure that no matter how much time goes by and how many guys come in her life, this girl will never forget me and this experience. It’s the adventure, the spontaneity, and, most importantly, the feeling that I (and ONLY I) can get her emotions that high up that nobody can match.

Now I keep telling her she’s ‘cursed’ – these are the type of things that make me and can make you as well unforgettable. They just put you in another league.

I laugh when other guys approach her on a bar or a club – after things like this they don’t stand a chance. I just walk past by her and whisper into her ear: “I’m feeling like eating a Fondue again – we might need to go to Paris right now.”

I love teasing her, but she knows that there’s a bit of truth into it as well.

So I can call myself a pretty cool guy – but then, there’s one other person who deserves the credit for this story.

My best friend in Copenhagen is this Mexican guy – a cool, handsome and very smart folk who left his top-tier job in Mexico and flew for his Masters in Copenhagen because, he put: “Mario, I was desperate – all of my friends, from school, work, university and more were not only getting married but also having children!”

So he flew away, crossed the Atlantic and came to this paradise full of very, very hot girls we call now our home. But, before, five or so years ago…

He was at the beach in Mexico – and by this bar, next to the fine, blue waters of the Pacific he met a girl. She was, in his words, “very smart and very pretty.” And even if he had never read this site before, he knew that the best thing you can ask a girl is: “what are your dreams?”

Apparently the top dream this girl had was to go to Paris.

Guess what my friend did?

Even if they hadn’t even have a single kiss before, he bough two return tickets to France, reserved three (!) nights in the Four Seasons hotel and took the girl to the city of her dreams.

He’s absolutely insane, but a GOOD insane. Those are the anecdotes you never forget as a man. I can break up with my girl (as he did with his), but those stories are and will remain unforgettable for both.

And hey – neither of us is rich at all. We are two normal guys with a standard wage and earnings that wouldn’t go and impress anyone around.

My friend and I are very irresponsible guys – by no means I suggest you to spend hundreds of dollars on a day as my friend (in his case, thousands!) and I did.

But I hope it serves you as an inspiration.

You can invent your own Paris – you can also do magic. What this magic is doesn’t really matter – it’s all about the spontaneity, it’s about making something that no other man would ever do. If you liked this story, you might also enjoy my 5.00 AM date story as well.

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My Unique and Spontaneous 1-Day in Paris Date is a post from: Dating Beautiful Women

Much more than men, girls are in general insecure. They are insecure about their body: breast size, ass, weight, hair, and also, sometimes, about life itself. Girls are stronger than before, and equal to men in almost every way – but those insecurities persist.

Sometimes they are quite obvious – especially when girls are young. I’ve met dozens of girls feeling ‘sad’ that they breast were not big, and also feeling bad (and sometimes even miserable) about their weight going up. And it’s all not just limited to the body – “I’ll never find a good job”, “I’m not smart enough”, and those types of thinking are more common than you could imagine.

And that’s an open window for us guys to raise girl’s self-esteem. Compliment and give LOVE!

Especially when you are in a relationship, make sure to play down these ‘problems’, and make girls believe they are great and those ‘problems’ are nothing to you.  Make them feel great about their body, their personalities and tell them their future is bright.

This is very powerful – girls need to be told all this, and you can make them anchor good feelings towards you. Few guys do this smartly – and, if you do it right, you can achieve stronger relationships and you will receive, in return, a lot of love yourself.

I tell my girlfriend that’s she’s the smartest, most beautiful and best possible girlfriend in the world – every moment and every time. I do it in a way that is not fake – when I say her breasts are beautiful, I spend twenty minutes kissing, touching and playing with them. Same with each part of the body.

It’s never enough – you can ALWAYS, all the time, keep telling your girl how great she is. Don’t worry about she thinking “she’s too in love with me”, and all that stuff – just do it.  Everyone loves to be complimented, and especially if it’s by that special someone they have.

The only rule (if it can be called that way) to be careful is that your girl should always know that if she messes up with you, it’s over. You have all that love and passion for her – but the moment she screws up, no matter how much you love her, it’s over. If you can stand up to that, you can control all this at your will.

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How to Deal With Girls’ Insecurities is a post from: Dating Beautiful Women

This post may come, to some, as a joke – but it’s real.

I’ve had a girlfriend for quite a bit – I’m happy and really not looking for someone else. The radar is always on – I’m a man, after all. But it’s not the point – I’m just not as experimenting with new techniques as I’ve done before.

But sometimes, by chance, new discoveries arise – new ways of getting more beautiful women. These past weeks I’ve found ONE thing that has made at least TEN girls hit on me in just one week and ask for my e-mail, phone number or outright for a date – as crazy as it sounds.

The cause was this seminar. Long story short, I prepared a (free) seminar for 100+ people at my business school in Denmark – my whole point was to teach others how to create an online business, and give them the tools to do so. I just went for the thrill – it was just a long-time objective I had in my to-do list.

I promoted the seminar quite a bit: online campaigns, newspapers, posters, class presentations, etc. But still – just to help other people, for the thrill of speaking in front of so many of them, not for money nor for girls.

But – I had FIVE girls (hot, as all girls in Denmark) writing me BEFORE the seminar, without even knowing me in person, asking for a date. And then I had many more in-person after the seminar walking to me asking to ‘keep in touch and see each other soon’.

I’m still overwhelmed! I didn’t have many problems with girls in the past couple of years – but, on the same page, I’ve never been as successful in such a short period. It’s crazy – it’s literally HOT girls coming to me asking for a date. That NEVER happened before – and never in such scale.

The point of this post is not to brag about my popularity, but just to open your mind – to show you how some out-of-the-box thinking got me lots of women. I’m definitely doing something similar next time I’m single.

I’m not suggesting that you should do a seminar (though you can) – just think about what makes the seminar so appealing: the topic (it was lifestyle, being your own boss – it sells), that I’m quite a good speaker (it’s an alpha-characteristic) and the fact it made me look ‘different’ – not all guys (in fact, very few) organize out of the blue and then speak at a seminar in campus about business.

Now let’s think – what can YOU do TODAY to create this kind-of magnetic aura on yourself? I’m not thinking about a quick fix or an easy solution here – I’m thinking about something big, as my event was, that will get you a high level of exposure and dramatically increase your popularity.

The quickest way is to find 1) what are you passionate about (be very precise – make a list of your skills)? and 2) of all those passions and skills, what can you teach well and what do people (and girls especially!) will care and would love to learn about?

You can then prepare a seminar yourself – it’s not THAT hard, and if you get the right topic and target the right audience you can make it.

But then, again, this is about opening your mind. Pick up is not all about clubs and bars, pick up lines or mind tricks – just be AWESOME. Show your awesomeness and girls will come to you. Dare to be different, to be special – you’ll stand out and, just like with me this week, you’ll get girls walking to YOU.

How I Got 10 Girls to Ask Me for a Date in One Day is a post from: Dating Beautiful Women

In here you have the tools, tricks and hours of reading material to get ideas, inspiration and more. But it will all be worthless unless you go out and put it into practice.

Do you? If you are single and looking for someone – Did you do something today to get closer to your goal? The answer must and should be yes.

If you don’t act, if you don’t move your body and put yourself into action you won’t win. Staying home alone won’t get you anywhere. Fire a few shots and try!

Because for much I want to help you, it’s you who has to make the big steps here. You have to work and be in action everyday to get the girlfriend you want.

Try out these, for example:

• Spend an hour at a cafe and approach at least one girl.
• Call and invite a girl you know to go for a coffee, a drink, a walk or even to eat.
• Find and email a few girls online.
• Go and sign up to a gym, yoga, language or whatever kind of activity you might like and has girls.

These are just a few examples, but I hope you get the point. If you want something, you have to be in action.

To meet my girlfriend I spent a weekend on a charity camping on the slums, under the rain and in conditions so horrible that few would like to experience. But I went so I could meet her. It was my best chance to speak for long and deep with her.

How about you? If you do nothing, you’ll get nothing. Girls don’t knock on your door; it’s you who has to fire the shots. Good luck!

Do Something Today is a post from: Dating Beautiful Women

This is article is part of the Inspiration Method Series.

Let’s talk a little bit about visualization. For those who don’t know what it is, basically it goes around thinking and picturing in your mind what your perfect outcomes could be. Done every day, this is a powerful exercise that can help you achieve better results in everything you try in your life. Including, also, love.

So let’s do a short exercise. Picture in your mind what is what you want. A girl in particular maybe – or perhaps just one perfect girl you didn’t even meet. Visualize her, think and color her in your mind till the very last bit. You have to know exactly what you are looking for. No vague, no doubts: be precise.

Take a few minutes and think the best picture you can. Imagine you speaking, hugging, kissing and doing whatever you want with her. Imagine it for real. That’s the first part of the deal.

So, once you are done make sure you save that picture in your mind. You’ll have to come back to it continuously. It has to be your trigger, your inspiration and what will make you stay focused. If there’s one girl you would want in the world, it has to be this one. Think highly, but don’t exaggerate. At least not for now.

With that said, the second part of the deal is to separate a bit your time to prepare for this girl. Save one or two hours every day and dedicate them wholly to transform and prepare you to become the man she will be the most attracted to. Twenty or thirty minutes a day won’t do – if you like this girl for real, take it seriously.

It’s better if it’s a fixed time. Maybe after you wake up, after lunch or do it instead of what you do before going to sleep. But do it. Save this time and dedicate it wholly to become the perfect man she has always dreamed about.

Preparing To Be Her Perfect Man

It’s not that hard to prepare yourself. You just need to know where your focus should be. Investigate a bit, get to know what your girl likes and you’ll be on the right track. When lacking motivation just picture her in your mind. It will get you back on track.

Start by, if you haven’t already, working on your charisma, speech and body language. I have to keep insisting on this. It’s really that important. Girls hardly like shy, silent and socially awkward people. You don’t have to be the famous alpha-male to attract women – but you do need to be at least socially proficient and better the norm.

Don’t skip steps – you must have a solid base. It will be what you will leverage for the rest of the time. Then it’s when you focus on what specifically your girl will like you to be.

For example, a few years ago I wanted one girl in particular that seemed inaccessible. We won’t get into too many details here, but she was exactly what I wanted on that specific moment. Not the easiest deal, for sure, but I then separated my chunk of time every day and started preparing to get this girl.

I investigated about her, asked friends what she liked and so on. I then focused on making myself more attractive to her. I didn’t change myself or what I like or what I don’t like. I just worked on the details that would make me more appealing for her specifically.

So I watched her favorite movies, read a few of her favorite authors and heard most of her favorite music. That just to get started.

This makes me laugh to say, but totally works: “You know, NAME, I read a book/watched movie once, it was called NAME, and you remind me about it. Blah blah…” I’m sure that deep inside girls know that we read or watched that stuff just to speak to them, but it’s just stronger than them. They love it.

Dedicate a little bit of your day and work to become the man your pictured girl will love. And please, this goes beyond the simple steps. The real deal come when you use this time for hard, risky and even outrageous projects. I joined dancing classes, a special gym, a charity organization and even the Argentine Red Cross just to be even closer to my pictured girls.

When the time comes and you are more complete it will be inevitable that she’ll feel more attracted to you. Most girls will. They love guys who are charismatic, cool and even share a few of their passions and views.

Mind, don’t be a copycat. Keep your identity. My favorite movie is and will keep being Indiana Jones and my favorite music won’t change either. In the same way, you would have to kill me for me to join, for example, a leftist political organization. Keep your place, but work on the details.

Now picture her and start thinking what you could do. Put yourself in action, for without action there’s no win!

How to Visualize (and Then Have) Success With Girls is a post from: Dating Beautiful Women