Building Success With Women

This is article is part of the Inspiration Method Series. The Inspiration Method, still under development, will become the world’s most powerful way of seduction. It’s a thoroughly studied and practical method with the aim of achieving the greatest results in the shortest period of time.

I already covered how you could use the 80/20 rule to immediately multiply your success with girls. Now I’ll give you one other tip that will make you get even better results. Both methods are compatible and best if used together. This one is about habits.

The Importance of Habits

We are what we repeatedly do. Excellence then, is not an act, but a habit. That’s what good old Aristotle said. And it’s just like that: a successful person is built around good habits. And, to our great delight, we can create simple habits that will help us with seduction.

To learn more about habits I suggest you reading this article on the Inspiration Palace and giving a glance to Leo Babuata’s amazing Zen Habits blog.

The Habit of Pick Up

But here we will focus on just one habit that will help you becoming successful with women. And it’s simple: from this day on, approach one new girl every day. No excuses. From now on always approach a new girl. Ask for a date, for a coffee, speak about the weather, your pets… But do it. Don’t go to sleep without approaching at least one girl.

Where to approach is up to you. You can try clubs, bars, on the street, on the bus, at work or even online. But never fail to do it. It’s a very simple habit to create and the benefits are greater than you can imagine.

Maybe you are successful from the very start, maybe you are not… But it really doesn’t matter. This habit goes beyond that. It’s more about conditioning your mind that you have to meet new people every day. The first few times you’ll feel horrible, shy and that it would be impossible to approach. But do it! Approach one new girl every day.

Sticking Points

The habit is very simple and very straightforward. But so far many people tend to stick and don’t act the way they should. Of course it’s not easy to kick start a habit… But just think about it. It’s just approaching ONE girl every day. I can’t think of a simpler thing to do!

Here are the main sticking points:

1- Shyness.

I’m lazy every morning but I still go running and exercising, no matter how impossible it seems to get my body out of bed. It’s the same with this. Shyness is an excuse not to do what you have to. And you have to approach at least one girl.

If you still think it will be impossible for you to do so, read the articles here and here. There’s no good side in being shy, no matter where you look at it from.

2- No variation.

Don’t escape from the habit. It would be easy to just send a message to a new girl every day through some online dating website or social network. It’s better than nothing, but it won’t get you far.

Instead focus on variation. Approach one day on the train, one other online and on the weekends try inside clubs or bars. This way you’ll make sure to make the most of the new habit.

3- Being inconstant (and cheating.)

I never fail to write a scheduled post. It’s not that something really bad could happen if I skip one day… But I would then start being inconstant about it. If you really want to compromise, you’ll have to do it every day.

Then, just to make it clear, approaching two girls on Monday doesn’t mean you can skip Tuesday. No way! If you want to approach twenty girls on Monday, go ahead. It’s surely much better than if you approach just one. But by no means dare to skip Tuesday. You’ll have to approach one every day!

Escalating and Getting Better

If you feel you are not ready for this yet, start small. Start by approaching one girl every two days. But do it, always and without failure. Keep on doing it until you feel confident enough. Once you achieve that, start approaching one girl a day just like I tell you.

If you feel you are getting better at this don’t let the excitement take over you. If you want to approach three or four girls per day, do it. But look for something constant. That’s the essence of habits. Go slow but progress consistently.