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The Top 5 Common Dating Myths That Are Wrong

Myths have poised men. Now, more than ever, many men approach dates with insecurity. They have been brainwashed with false beliefs and ridiculous concepts on what is a good date. No more is man a man – men are looking like crying babies because they really don’t know what to do.

But there’s hope. Men must get rid of all these myths and start being more confident in what they are and how they date. This article will explain the five biggest myths and what are the solutions.

Myth I: Letting Her Do The Talking.

Don’t let her do all the talking. Girls will love to speak about themselves – everyone does. They’ll be happy to share their point of views, experiences and talk about how great they are. But that won’t take you too far.

If you want to be a step forward, you must speak. You must share your stories, anecdotes and experiences with her. In fact, you should speak more than she does. Engage her in your stories, dreams and anecdotes. Make the conversation interactive, inspire and look for a deeper connection.

To do this, you must speak. If you let her do all the talking and ask her a lot of questions, you won’t stand out. You’ll show interest and good-heartedness – but those two alone won’t win you girls.

Myth II: Focusing on What You Have in Common.

People tend to place way too much importance on shared interests. It’s excellent if you both love the same movies, music, etc – but it’s not key.You can do very well without having any interest in common. Don’t think a girl will dislike you because you hate hip-hop or just because you like eating cellery. It’s insignificant.

It’s important, however, to share values. Values go beyond mere interests – they are hope, dreams, views of the world, ways of treating people, types of friends, etc. Sharing these will your date will create a stronger rapport, and much faster.

Instead of focusing on shared interests, focus on shared values. You’ll multiply your success.

Myth III: Thinking Unconventional Dates Always Fail.

Unconventional dates not only work – they are, in fact, an easier, faster and much more rewarding path to dating success. I’m a living proof of how well they work.

Doing something different will be exciting. It will surprise all the girls who had enough movies, dinners and drinks. If you are confident and learn to bring out her deepest feelings, you’ll progress more in this one date than you’ll do in five of the others.

Myth IV: Thinking All Depends On Your First Date.

The first date is the most important date. However, if you don’t kiss, sleep or otherwise do any significant progress with her doesn’t mean that won’t in the future. Some girls will just demand more of your time and effort to get really attracted.

There are, of course, some deal breakers that can ruin your chances from the very beginning. If you want totally different things out of life or are completely repulsed by one or more things about your date, it could well be better not to meet up for a second time.

Myth V: Girls Only Want Good Looking Guys/Rich Guys.

Looks and money matter -it’s always better to have more from both. When presented with two otherwise identical guys, girls will prefer the better looking and richer one. Always.

However, you don’t need to panic if you don’t look good or are not rich. If you are inspiring, charismatic and really can get her aroused, you’ll still be in the race. In fact, you might well have more chances than the better looking or richer guys. Compensate what you lack with something else.

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